Started as Friends

 


Started as Friends


I always looked at him as a friend. I guess the feelings just grew on me over time. I mean we already had a great connection and he was attractive, what else would you want. It was quite funny as well since we met off an app to meet possible dates. We just became best friends, not what you’d expect, right? I didn’t want anything romantic with him at first. I was completely ok with being best friends and nothing more. 


        However, feelings for the both of us changed. I had recently gone through a breakup and we ended up talking about how I had feelings for him. He admitted it as well. We talked about it being something we could visit. It got pushed off and we dropped the subject. I knew we both still had feelings. I did end up moving onto someone new and so did he. Was I jealous? Absolutely. I wanted him but didn’t want to ruin our friendship. 


“Listen I am confused but I am pretty sure I still have feelings for you. I know we are both with other people and if you don’t feel the same that’s ok. I just thought you should know”


“I am honestly confused on the topic as well. I just don’t know. I am not going to drop her for you right away. I think we should wait until we are both single to consider it again.”


        I think that was the smartest thing to do at the time. Years went on as we continued to be best friends. Those feelings for him never faded. He was the only one that was there for me sometimes. He was the best male connection I had. We were both single after all. It was time to chat about it, again. 


“Do you remember that conversation we had years ago? The one where we said we were both confused and taken? I feel a lot more clarity. I feel that we do have something more than friends. I mean who have you told almost everything to? Me. Every high and low? Me. It is crystal clear to me. We are both single, why not try it like we have always talked about?.”


        To my surprise, he enthusiastically agreed. It’s 5 years and we have tied the knot. I knew it was the right decision from the beginning. It had to be him. We are going to be that couple that is happy best friends and lovers until the day we die.



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